This question should be answered by you if ONLY you are an optimistic person and get things your way.?

If you are one of those who easily materialize their wishes, who can get things work their way, who attract the right sort of friends and are always in a cozy atmosphere... I want to know more about you. Would you cl your self as an optimistic, positive person? How was your childhood? I want to know how do you think and feel most of time- are you happy ,most of the time. What do you feel when you see really disturbing news on TV, how do you react when a loved one is going through trauma, what do you do when a friend turns against you or when something does not work out. Most of the times, what are you thinking and feeling. Do you have any 'tricks' you can share with us- like HOW do you keep an optimistic mind set when life is crap, or how do you remain calm when things are chaotic. Do you have a temper? How would your friends describe you.