Who should be more vilified: Home Wrecking Hussies or the men who cheat with said Home Wrecking Hussies?

ultimately most of the blame lies with the husband, because he didn't have to fall for the temptation. If she knew he was married she should share in the blame.But the courts don't deal with adultery anymore, most states have the no fault divorce anymore. He made the choice, and he is the one who promised to love you forever, and he could have walked away from her even if she did initiate it.